sick systems



  • How people get sucked into and subsequently stuck in ==abusive relationships== (both emotional and physical)
  • How to keep someone with you forever


  1. Keep them too busy to think
  2. Keep them tired
  3. Keep them emotionally involved
  4. Reward intermittently

Qualities that Keep You in One

  • Loyalty
  • Patience
  • A strong work ethic
  • Optimism
  • Self-sacrifice
  • A need to be useful to others
  • Forgiveness
  • Farsightedness
  • Trust
  • Hope


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