sick systems
Reference
- Source: [[ Anna Wiener ]]; Uncanny Valley - Book
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- #psychology
- Relevant Notes:
- Phenomena like sick systems and trauma bonding show ==how people keep busy as a coping mechanism.==
“Look up sick systems,” said Noah. “Look up trauma bonding. It’s the culty thing: keep people busy until they forget about the parts of their life they left behind.
Definition
- How people get sucked into and subsequently stuck in ==abusive relationships== (both emotional and physical)
- How to keep someone with you forever
Rules
- Keep them too busy to think
- Keep them tired
- Keep them emotionally involved
- Reward intermittently
Qualities that Keep You in One
- Loyalty
- Patience
- A strong work ethic
- Optimism
- Self-sacrifice
- A need to be useful to others
- Forgiveness
- Farsightedness
- Trust
- Hope
Sources
https://www.issendai.com/psychology/sick-systems.html
http://www.issendai.com/psychology/sick-systems-qualities-that-keep-you-stuck.html
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